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As I’ve mentioned before, I’m not very experimental with my hair. A couple of terrible mistakes along the way have provided me with the proof that I should leave well enough alone. I like long hair. And for the first twenty-some years of my life I had the exact same hair style, just cut to varying lengths. There were no layers back then. I just had long, very straight hair.

As some of you may remember, I got a pretty significant amount of hair chopped off when I was pregnant with Jaia.

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It was very un-characteristic of me to do something so drastic, and I can’t deny sneaking peeks at myself in every available mirror on the way home in sheer panic. I liked it, but it was soooo different, and I wasn’t used to different. I don’t do different. But I grew to really, really like it – when I wasn’t hating it. There were no more ponytails (how my longish, frizzy, not quite straight, not quite curly hair ends up most days) but there was a major reduction in the amount of time spent drying, straightening and otherwise styling my hair. Bonus.

But of course, as I was loving the new me, I missed the long locks of yesteryear. I found myself looking at women with long, flowing locks, feeling green with envy.  So I let my hair grow back out…and that brings us to today. And I’m sitting here contemplating another cut. I have a style in mind (above the shoulders but below the chin), and have shown the picture to some friends and family – but the opinions have been split right down the middle. I’m not worried about the style not suiting me, I’m more afraid of regretting actually cutting it. (Point to note: I am standing as Matron of Honour in my sister’s wedding in April, on a beach, in hot and humid Dominican Repbulic. Cue frizz).

To cut, or not to cut: that is the question.

January 26, 2008 - 8:05 pm

Auntie Jen - CUT!

January 27, 2008 - 1:58 pm

Shannen - Team Cut! is leading Team Don’t Cut! 1 to nada. Hmmmmm…

(My anti-spam word is blemish. Not a good sign).

January 28, 2008 - 11:44 am

Sarah Doak - I say cut!

January 28, 2008 - 1:53 pm

jason - Here’s the great thing about a cutting hair, it grows back. I don’t understand girls.

January 28, 2008 - 5:51 pm

Shannen - Jas,

I see your point. But boys don’t tend to grow their hair to the middle of their back so it’s usually less of an issue for them. Compare it to say….a beard. If you’ve spent months and months (or years for some fellas) growing prime facial hair, some might think twice about shaving it off.

And if they are growing their hair that long, it’s likely a mullet and there should be no question about whether or not to chop it off…

I take it that you are on Team Cut!. I’ll make not of your vote.

S

January 29, 2008 - 11:54 am

Jessie - Alright! That’s it. Shan: It’s time for a mullet. Really, it’s the only way you will get the best of both worlds. Head on over to http://www.mulletsgalore.com for inspiration!

February 5, 2008 - 3:00 pm

jason - as a reply to that, i will grow a beard and then shave it off to show support. it’s already been about a month since i shaved anyway

2007: the year in musics (part 4 of 4)

Alright, this has dragged on way longer than I had planned. I don’t know if anyone still cares about what 2007 albums I think were really good now that we’re 25 days into January, but I’m a completionist (though a lazy one), so here’s the top 5.

THE BEST 5 ALBUMS OF THE YEAR

el-p5. El-P – I’ll Sleep When You’re Dead

With contributions from such guests as Trent Reznor, Cat Power, and the Mars Volta, I’ll Sleep When You’re Dead is definitely not a typical hiphop album. Couple their contributions with El-P’s dizzying, complex production and his very distinctive delivery and rhyme style, and this album really sounds like nothing else I’ve ever heard (well, since El-P’s last album, I guess). El-P also doesn’t bother writing about typical hiphop topics either (girls, money, gold, etc), instead filling his album with songs about fear, despair, the terrible state of the U.S. (both at home and abroad), and the life of a prison guard on a post-apocalyptic prison ship who falls in love with a female prisoner (“Habeas Corpses”), among other things. This album is exhausting, depressing, brilliant, and the more I listen to it, the sadder I get that most people are unaware that hiphop is capable of being about so much more than boasting about money.
Favourite track: “Flyentology”

national4. The National – Boxer

If I had to recommend a 2007 album to someone without knowing what type of music they listen to, it’d definitely be Boxer. I don’t necessarily think it’s the best album of the year (clearly, I think it’s around 4th), but I think it’s the most widely-likeable, and probably the hardest to hate. I think I’d play it for my parents, who refer to everything I listen to as “caterwauling”… I think I’d even recommend it to my brother who stubbornly still listens to Bryan Adams. This album is beautiful and huge and awesome. I guess if I have one complaint about Boxer, it’s that the second half is a bit too mellow, but the more I listen to it, the less I notice or care. It’s not mellow in a sissy way anyway, it’s mellow in a “we’ve proven how great a band we are, now listen to how awesome our singer’s voice is” kind of way. If you buy/download/steal this album and you claim you don’t like it, I don’t know what to tell you – you should probably stop listening to music. Either that, or you’re lying.
Favourite track: “Mistaken for Strangers”

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3. Band of Horses – Cease to Begin

Even if you haven’t heard of Band of Horses, you’ve probably still heard them somewhere – their music is used in a lot of commercials, and I’m sure I’ve heard them on a bunch of tv shows – their sound would fit in nicely on a kind-of-crappy show that uses surprisingly decent music from time to time, like Grey’s Anatomy or Scrubs. They definitely would have been prominently involved in a particularly moving episode of Party of Five. Every song on Cease to Begin is super catchy and has, at one point or another, been stuck in my head for days at a time. Normally, this would mean that I’d get sick of an album really quickly, but I just can’t stop listening to this. Plus, they called one of their songs “Detlef Schrempf” for no apparent reason, which I think is hilarious – if they name a song on their next album “Rik Smits” or “Kurt Rambis”, I think I’ll have to make it the album of the year.
Favourite track: “Ode to LRC”

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2. Arcade Fire – Neon Bible

I don’t think it’s possible to fully appreciate how fantastic Neon Bible is until you’ve seen it re-created live in all its chaotic glory. Most bands don’t have to deal with details like what instrument each of its 8-10 members will play on each song, or how to pack up a pipe organ to bring it on tour, but Arcade Fire pull it off perfectly. Similarly to how Funeral was criticized for sounding too much like the Talking Heads, Neon Bible has been criticized for sounding too much like Bruce Springsteen. While their influences are pretty obvious sometimes, I still think this criticism is ridiculous for two reasons: only “Keep the Car Running” and “(Antichrist Television Blues)” really sound like Springsteen at all, and doesn’t the world need more music that sounds like the Talking Heads and (good) Springsteen, anyway? If the criticism was “they sound too much like Nickelback”, I’d say it’s valid, but sounding too much like something awesome seems like a pretty dumb way to discredit a band. Anyway, this album is amazing, they’re the best most fun live band in the world, and despite not being a particularly patriotic person, I’m proud that they call Canada home.
Favourite track: “Intervention”

Neon Bible was easily the album of the year… until October when a little band from England dropped this bombshell announcement on their website:

Hello everyone.
Well, the new album is finished, and it’s coming out in 10 days;
We’ve called it In Rainbows;
Love from us all.
Jonny

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1. Radiohead – In Rainbows

Time will tell how important the act of self-releasing In Rainbows on their website for whatever-you-want-to-pay will end up being to the old band/record label relationship, but it was definitely a very forward-thinking, ambitious move on Radiohead’s part. Personally, I think it was a brilliant anti-piracy maneuver – they knew it’d get leaked, so they endeared themselves to everyone by releasing it immediately and trusting their fans to pay as much or as little as they wanted for it, thereby re-couping a significant amount of the money they would have lost if everyone had just downloaded a leaked copy for free. Had this album been crap, it would have at least been an interesting experiment. Luckily, this is not the case. Despite having multiple absolute masterpieces in their catalog, I think it could be argued pretty easily that In Rainbows is Radiohead’s most-consistant (and possibly best) album ever. I’ve listened to it constantly since it came out, and every song has been my favourite at one point or another (except maybe “Faust Arp” which serves as more of an intro to “Reckoner” than a stand-alone song). This album is perfect, top shelf, 5 stars, 2 thumbs up, whatever. It’s so good that the b-sides album that came with the deluxe edition is probably one of the best 5 albums of the year.
Favourite track: all of them

Alright, all done. Next time I commit to writing a 4-part column, I hope it doesn’t happen right when work gets insane. Looking ahead to 2008’s albums, the only thing I’ve heard so far that I really liked is the self-titled debut of the hilariously-named Vampire Weekend. The list of albums coming out this year isn’t nearly as impressive as 2007 (at least on paper), but with personal favourites the Roots, Mogwai and Portishead (AFTER A 10 YEAR BREAK!) supposedly releasing albums at some point in 2008, it doesn’t look so bad.

January 25, 2008 - 1:49 pm

Jessie - Contributor Mark: OUTSTANDING! For what it’s worth, I’ve really enjoyed reading all of these posts. And I have learned a lot because you know about a lot of great music that I’ve never heard of. Thanks – Your Hermana

January 25, 2008 - 3:21 pm

Sonja - I’m Contributor Mark’s wife and am pretty much not allowed to play my music when he’s in the car (it’s not on Mark’s iPod and mine doesn’t connect to the radio so it’s not like he’s mean or anything) so you would probably think that at some point I might have at least heard of more than 6 albums on the Top 16. I’m happy to say that even though I’m clearly not a music snob, my top 5 albums of 2007 include all of Mark’s top 4 plus a little album called Blackout. You’d be shocked to know that Contributor Mark actually likes a couple songs on that album, Break the Ice is probably his favourite.

January 25, 2008 - 3:56 pm

Jen - Dan bought me The National for Christmas and you are completely right, it is impossible to hate… I knew I liked it after hearing the first 20 seconds and it hasn’t been ejected from my cd player since

ps. I also agree with your #1

January 25, 2008 - 5:29 pm

Gary - Come on Mark. You totally jammed out at the last second by not picking a favourite song on In Rainbows. I’ll pick one for you. Weird Fishes. Done.

January 25, 2008 - 10:41 pm

Dan - Your reasons for liking #5 sound eerily reminiscent of my reasons for liking “Dancer in the Dark” and other morbid, soul-crushing tragic films.

*pfffft* … the sound of your opposition to re-watching DITD collapsing like a house of cards!

January 26, 2008 - 11:58 am

contributor mark - gary: all i need, reckoner or 15 step. that’s as far as i can go.

dan: i suppose there are similarities, but i don’t cry for the duration of this album, then for hours after it’s done. they’re both sad, morbid and soul-crushing, but DitD is on a whole other level.

Make that 5…

Five separate (or connected, not that it matters) illnesses for the bean since December. 

We went to our second rescheduled appointment yesterday for Jaia to get her 12 month shots and the doctor opted to wait again because the ear infection so not only not gone, but worse.  Thankfully, he gave us a prescription this time that should clear it up in a few days.

Jaia has been such a trooper through all of this.  Other than the obvious (throwing up, coughing, stuffy nose), she hasn’t let on that she’s been under the weather at all.  I’ve heard horror stories of how an ear infection can lead to a CRANKY baby (understandably), but I seriously had no idea anything was still wrong….Though there were the awful sleeps she’s been having.  I guess that should have tipped me off – but I just chalked it up to a new stage of growth.  Bad mama. 

I’ll just be glad when she’s all healed up and life can return to normal.  I miss normal.

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January 24, 2008 - 8:59 pm

Julie - Hmmmm, earaches, can’t wait for those times two! Poor sweet thing. I hope she feels better soon.

Un-Kept Promise

So…

It turns out I’m a bad blogger and a promise breaker.  I resolved to write more in the New Year and I have yet to do that.  But in my defense, I haven’t had enough time to do much of anything, including taking/posting pictures or even keeping up with reading my favourite blogs and sites.  Unfortunately, it has been a couple of weeks since I have had the time to sit down and catch up with real and virtual friends.  So only yesterday did I find out that Bermuda Kurt got the job of a lifetime (Yay!), that Pip is still comfortably residing in Rachel’s belly, that someone stole Island Heather’s car (though they found it not long after), that Paul made it safely to Thailand, etc.   I feel bad for not keeping up – but life around here has been more jam-packed than usual.

With the sickness that is seemingly endless and the constant prep for 3 (yes 3!) upcoming tests (4 if you include Dan’s), blog posting has taken a back seat.  I also pulled out the paint supplies and vowed to get the bottom half of the house done by the time we leave for the DR.  The top half already looks amazing which gives me really, really good motivation.  But I’m finding that there really aren’t enough hours in the day to do all the things I want to/should be doing.  How do families of more than 3 handle it?

January 23, 2008 - 2:35 pm

Kris - What tests???

That painting was looking pretty awesome when I left, so can’t wait to see the finished product. Is Jaia finally better?

K.

January 23, 2008 - 4:55 pm

rachel Edwards - Ne worry pas! Sounds like there’s plenty on your plate, and as long as you update from time to time I keep clicking. Hope you’re all over the sickness for a while now!

January 23, 2008 - 8:29 pm

Shannen - Things are busy, but I missed staying updated on you gals. Won’t happen again. No squeaks from Pip yet?

Jaia is not better yet. In fact, she’s worse. Ear infection is back. Poor Bean.

It’s not a mistake, this is my haircut, get it?

I think I just got a bad haircut on the way to work from Grace at Super-Ultra-Mega Cuts, but I won’t know for sure until I see my wife’s face at the reveal …

Stay tuned!

January 22, 2008 - 3:36 pm

Auntie Jen - HAHA! I want to see a picture!

ps. you should have learned your lesson by now with Super Mega Ultra Cuts.

January 23, 2008 - 8:34 pm

Shannen - The hair is actually quite cute…and hats actually fit him now. Thumbs up from the wife.

January 24, 2008 - 4:23 pm

Dan - Phew! That’s a relief.

In my original post, I failed to mention that Grace wasn’t all there, if you know what I mean. As she started snipping and chatting nonsensically, I had a sinking feeling that I was going to come out of there with a terrible ‘do. It was reminiscent of the dread I felt as I went under the blades of a skydiving granny in New Zealand who was slurring her words and stunk of gin. That one didn’t end as well …