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Cheeky.

This kid cracks me up.  Her latest trick is to play Peek-a-boo with you rather than wait for you to play with her.   She thinks it’s hilarious and bursts into hysterical (kind of maniacal) laughter when you notice and start to peek-a-boo back.

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Jaia makes me appreciate life in a way I haven’t in years.  A simple, innocent outlook where a game of peek-a-boo, a few independent steps or a new sound can delight.  I feel so lucky to get to experience this delight through her eyes every day.  It really makes all the other grown-up drama that we allow in our lives seem so ridiculous, doesn’t it?  There’s definitely something to be said for living and loving simply. 

 

January 9, 2008 - 1:27 pm

Kris - I admit it…I’m a big fan of the peek-a-boo. It just never gets old. Especially when you can catch photos like that one…adorable.

January 10, 2008 - 8:48 am

Marsha - Fabulous picture

January 10, 2008 - 11:21 am

Sonja - Just wait until she starts playing my favourite game of all time – hide, wait, and jump out and scare someone walking by. This trick works best on an unsuspecting sister or a colleague who thinks that their is no room for immature pranks in the workplace.

2007: the year in musics (part 1 of 4)

On Saturday night, a bunch of us were out celebrating Shannen and Gary’s birthdays. My memory of the evening is a bit hazy, but I seem to remember Shannen demanding some new columns from both Gary and myself, or we would no longer be allowed to play with Dan. Since Gary’s much-talked-about-but-never-actually-written book report of some book that he may or may not have ever even read will probably never materialize, I guess it’s on me to write some stuff for everyone’s favourite blog about the Fullertons.

I think I’ll fire up my new writing campaign with a big 4-part review of my favourite albums of 2007. I’ll get to the start of my top-16 albums of the year in the next column… for now, I’d like to write something about some albums from good artists that I thought for sure would be among my favourites of the year, but ultimately ended up being pretty dissapointing for various reasons.

ALBUMS THAT WEREN’T GOOD ENOUGH

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Bloc Party – A Weekend in the City

Huge expectations can be unfair to a young band, but that’s what happens when your debut album is one of the best albums of the decade (2005’s Silent Alarm). A Weekend in the City is alright, but Bloc Party seem to have decided that they want to be (and can be) the next big British pop-rock band, which seems to have screwed up their priorities. Singer Kele Okerere’s voice has been pushed to the front of the mix, while their previously-badass rhythm section pushed to the back, sounding like an afterthought. The quality of their rhythm section was what separated them from so many other similar bands, and to bury it like they did does nothing but neuter their sound. Also, when the quality of a band’s lyrics fluctuate from “really good and thought-provoking” all the way to “pretty embarassing and bad”, it’s not always a good idea to force the listener to focus on them. Anyway, it’s a decent album, but ultimately pretty dissapointing.

interpolInterpol – Our Love to Admire

Another album with huge expectations, Interpol’s latest fell a bit flat. They moved to a bigger record label for Our Love to Admire, so maybe that’s part of the problem here – the slow building moody rock songs with sweet jams on the back end have, for the most part, been replaced with fairly standard pop-rock songs, something the boys in Interpol are just too sad/moody/too cool to pull off. There are some really great songs here, including the awesomely titled “No I in Threesome” and album (and live show) opener “Pioneer to the Falls”, but this album is just not nearly as awesomely consistent as their first two. It does get bonus points for some pretty great cover-art, though.

kanyeKanye West – Graduation

Never known as a particularly good lyricist, Kanye has always been able to drop at least a couple of really memorable/catchy lines per album that make people that don’t know a whole lot about rap and hiphop think he’s better than he is. I can’t think of a single one on Graduation. His rhymes are generic, and the subject matter of his rhymes is, for the most part, pretty boring (designer clothes, drunk girls, more designer clothes) which wouldn’t be very surprising on most hiphop albums, except that Kanye once wrote “Jesus Walks”, so expectations are a bit higher. And I don’t know if I’m ready to talk about the song he did with Chris Martin. What a disaster. All that said, “Stronger” was the single of year, which sort of makes most of the rest of the album all the more dissapointing. Moving on…

starsStars – In Our Bedroom After the War

I think I’ve reached the point with Stars where everything Torquil Campbell does, says or sings is so annoying that it totally overshadows the rest of the band. I love Amy Millan’s voice, but when she only sings on half the album, it means the album can only be half good. While it was pretty cool of them to release this album for free on their website months before it’s in-store release, Torq’s lame, whiny open letter to pitchfork about their review (which was actually pretty generous, I thought), left a bad taste. Plus this album’s just kind of boring compared to their others, which really doesn’t help anything.

new pornosNew Pornographers – Challengers

This is a good album that I haven’t heard nearly enough. I know that AC Newman and Neko Case sound as great as ever, and the band sounds as tight and focused as always. This album probably suffers a bit from having way too many ballads and slower songs on it than previous albums, but maybe they’re getting old and can’t rock as hard as they used to. I don’t know. I really didn’t give this album a fair shake – I heard it a few times, it didn’t wow me, and then I sort of forgot about it. It deserves a re-visiting, though I’m still not sure that it’d crack the prestigious “Top 16 of 2007”.

caribouCaribou – Andorra

Caribou (once known as Manitoba until a lawsuit forced him to change it up) is the stage name of Dundas, ON’s Matt Snaith, a math nerd who’s really good at making music with his computer that sounds like a live band. This album is really pretty great – a beautiful mix of electronica, pop rock, and shoegaze, and could easily have cracked the Top 16, but I didn’t listen to it enough times. I got it at the same time as a bunch of other albums, and it took a bit of a back seat. I guess I could make my list a Top 17, but I don’t feel like it, so Caribou gets left out in the cold. Sorry buddy.

Alright, that’s all I can think of, for now. I’ll be back sometime soon with albums 16-11.

January 8, 2008 - 12:52 pm

Heatherness - Kanye’s album is amazing! Totally agree. Will definately check out a few of the others….especially The New Pornographers, who I really like.

My top album for 2007 – In Rainbows, Radiohead. BOOM. So good.

January 8, 2008 - 1:16 pm

Contributor Mark - “Kanye’s album is amazing! Totally agree.”

Nono, these are the albums that I DON’T think are very good (except the Caribou album). They’re noteworthy only because the bands in question have released stellar, top shelf material in the past, and these are all albums that, prior to hearing them, I would have expected would be at the top of my year-end list.

Top 16 albums of the year are coming in further posts, likely this week.

January 8, 2008 - 1:52 pm

jason - I was confused as well when i first started reading. I was very disappointed in your pics, until i realized that these were bands you would’ve hoped/thought were in the top 16 but didn’t make the cut for reasons explained.(who the fuck does a top 16 anyway? that’s copping out on making a decision on your top 15, or your too lazy to write about 20 albums, but you did anyway so i don’t understand. i think these posts should have been called, “there was only 16 good albums in 2007” that at least explains a little, i’m gonna write a post called ‘the best 28 movies of the last two years)

I’ve never listened to caribou, but i was equally as dissapointed in the other artists releases you mentioned. If i was still using a tape deck these albums would not have got much play, although a couple songs from each would’ve ended up on a mixed tape, but i would’ve lost them under the seat after a couple months and not cared enough make the effort to reach down and find them

January 8, 2008 - 1:57 pm

Contributor Mark - Gaaah! Alright, I’ll clarify the intro to say that I don’t think these albums are as good as I thought/hoped they’d be. As for doing a Top 16, there are 16 albums that I’ve listened to a lot, that I think are really good, and that I think I can write something somewhat interesting about. It’s just as arbitrary a number as 15 or 20, anyway.

January 8, 2008 - 3:48 pm

Gary - I’ll get to my post eventually. Then I can call Mark a liar.

I totally agree about Interpol. I tried to love the album badly but it ended up having 2 stellar tracks, some good ones, and too many mediocre tracks. I still maintain that Mammoth blows hard.

I disagree about Bloc Party however. They neutered the drums for some reason and that makes it worse than it could have been but I still loved the album. Question: If you never heard Silent Alarm and listened to Weekend in the City several times, how awesome would you think it was? I think your ranking of it is muted by expectations which, I suppose, kind of your point.

January 9, 2008 - 12:05 pm

Heatherness - This is what happens when I don’t have enough coffee before reading my blog list. I totally miss the point :b

I still think Kanye’s album was awesome (I continue to be a sucker for his perhaps excessive use of sampling and chipmunk voices) and I do maintain that Radiohead’s latest was the best album of 2007.

Looking forward to seeing what else makes your list!

January 11, 2008 - 12:51 pm

Dan - I miss the old pornographers.

As an aside, “Cominagetcha” by the Propellerheads could very be the best running song ever. Don’t take my word for it … check it out.

OAFe – Patak’s Vindaloo Curry Paste

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I am fairly new to the world of spicy foods.  I never liked them, could never handle them and never understood why anyone would want to burn their mouth off rather than just taste the food.  Dan, on the other hand, loves spicy foods.  He’s not quite a ‘suicide’ hot, but he’s pretty close.  We spent the first part of our relationship not sharing certain meals because mine were too bland and his were hotter than all hell.

Then a group of us went to an Indian restaurant in the Byward Market.  Haveli’s is well known for it’s fine cuisine and we were not disappointed.  I admit that, before walking through the door, I was afraid.  I did not have much experience with what I considered ‘exotic’ cuisine and if the food was going to be spicy or fishy (yet another food group I had decided I didn’t like before ever trying it) I knew I wouldn’t like it.

The waiter must have sensed that most of us hadn’t tried Indian before and offered to just start bringing out dishes so we could sample everything rather than try to order on our own. 

It was that day that changed my opinion about spice (and Indian food, for that matter).  I finally understood that spicy didn’t just mean hot.  It was also tasty.  Very tasty.  So tasty, in fact, that Dan and I regularly make our own Indian dishes (from scratch) at home on a very regular basis.

While the time it takes to make these feasts isn’t always at our disposal, we found an easy way to get our fix.  Patak’s.  This company makes the delicious sauces from any of the Indian dishes you’ve ever enjoyed in a restaurant – and sells them in a jar, at your local grocery store. 

A few years after the first Haveli’s experience, I ordered Beef Vindaloo at a restaurant in Winnepeg.  It was so good.  I have since ordered Beef Vindaloo every single time I’ve seen it on a menu.  So when Dan brought home a jar of Patak’s Vindaloo Curry Paste, I was ecstatic.  Vindaloo at home!

Turns out that Patak’s makes the hottest Vindaloo (or anything) that I’ve ever eaten.  And it came pretty close for Dan too.  It was beyond hot.  I immediately started sweating, my stomach cramped a little and I could barely feel the back of my throat.    I actually only got through a quarter of my plate before I had to stop.  It became physically painful.  Dan agreed, though he was brave enough to finish his plate.  I think he saw it as a challenge. 

Over the holidays, we decided to try it again, though this time we halfed the recipe and added more tomatoes.  That would have to help.  No.  It was still blazing hot.  I was starving and ended up finishing half of my plate, but, again, had to stop.

So you may ask why this is getting an OAFe if I can’t even eat it.  Well, I figure that if a jar of curry paste can scare off the experienced (Dan) and amateurs alike (me), I figured it’s worth the mention.  If you like spice, love Vindaloo and are short on time, give this stuff a try.  Though I warn you, you may not thank me for it.

 

January 8, 2008 - 9:00 am

Kris - The mention of Haveli made my mouth start to water and it’s only 9:58 a.m. here. YUM.

I’ve tried a few of Pataks products and been impressed, but yes…almost every one I tried was far hotter than I thought it would be!

January 10, 2008 - 10:23 am

Contributor Mark - Vindaloo? you’re crazy. that !@#$ is ridiculous. Patak’s “normal” curry paste is pretty great, and really easy to use (and not excessively hot). Curried chicken was one of the few things I knew how to make in university, and is probably the only meal from then (others: spaghetti, stir-fry, fajitas) that haven’t been forever ruined for me because I ate them too often.

February 29, 2008 - 4:32 pm

larry - Love Patak’s Vindaloo, I usually add a handful of Thai Peppers to give it that extra kick. I love spicy food and I especially like it when my endorphines (sp?) kick in after eating a spicy dish. Maybe I’m a manic, but you never really can judge the heat of a good meal until the next morning. 🙂

Gifts for two.

Dan bought me a pair of shoes I’ve been wanting for quite some time.  A definite throw-back to my youth, I’ve been eyeing Converse All-Stars for months.  What better casual shoes to go with a great pair of jeans?  After seeing them in Virginia but running out of time to go back out and pick them up before we left, Dan swooped in with his superhero cape and surprised me with a pair to celebrate turning 33.

Even better than the ones he bought for me were the ones he bought for Jaia.  They are a bit big yet, but were definitely a must-have.  It’s sad that my one-year old is already out ‘cooling’ me…by a lot.

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January 7, 2008 - 1:44 pm

Lizzie Jean - I was always soooooo jealous of your collection of converse all-stars that DIDN’T FIT ME!!!

January 7, 2008 - 1:51 pm

Sonja - Nice shoes! I have got a new hat for Christmas that almost matches Jaia’s sneaks except that it’s gray.

The real reason for my comment is a completely unrelated matter – I have a suggestion for forgetful.ca. I think you should start a mail bag feature whereby readers write in to the Contributor of their choice asking for answers to specific questions or just for their thoughts on any issue of their choice.

January 7, 2008 - 3:41 pm

EAP - Converse One-Star and Converse All-Star: Shoe of champions.

The twelve days of Christmas.

The holidays are officially over.  Growing up, the tradition was to put decorations up in early December and then take them down on or around January 6th, my birthday.  It marked the end of the season for our family.  I always liked the tradition – it allowed the Christmas season to linger long enough to really enjoy it, and then it would be capped off with birthday celebrations for me.  Yay!

Dan and I continued this tradition all the way up until last year.  Actually, there was barely any birthday celebration last year as I was home from the hospital only a couple of days earlier and was beyond exhausted from life with a very newborn baby.  I was so exhausted, in fact, that the Christmas decorations stayed up until after my mom arrived in mid-January and took them down for us (this also explains why they were so neatly placed in the storage bins when we opened them this year – a far cry from the way we normally cram them in after the holidays).

So this year, both being of more sound mind than last year, we changed a few of our traditions.  One was to take the decorations down on Decemebr 30th.  I wanted to start a new tradition.  Having a birthday 6 days after Christmas will always be rough on a kid (the New Years thing will only be cool later in life, I would imagine), and so we want to do the best we can to separate birthday from Christmas.  People always tried to do that for me (most gave two separate presents when I was a kid, and when I was really lucky, one was actually wrapped in real birthday wrapping paper) but it still kinda sucked sometimes. 

Having Jaia certainly brings a new perspective during the holidays.  Christmas is never more special than when you can see it through the eyes of a child.  And her head must be spinning.  Celebrations and gifts started on the 22nd of December and have continued through to today when she opened up one last gift and ‘helped’ her mom open a few.  She was definitely a spoiled little bean, thanks to all of her family and friends.  (So was her mama, for that matter).

And though I love (love, love, love!) the holidays – now more than ever – I am thrilled that they are over for another year.  The sickness, the travel, the non-stop activity, the planning and the preparation were all so taxing.  I had a blast (mostly, could have done without the vomitting), but I do not feel well rested.  It’s funny that I’m looking forward to life getting back to normal so that I can catch my breath and finally relax.