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The holiday season is BUSY for all of us.  Too busy if you ask me.  We save all of our gift giving, time with loved ones, cards, hellos, parties, hugs, dress up, baked goods for one month of the year – and before you know it, it’s over, January is here and we wait 11 months to do it all again.

But this January – as cold and blustery as it will be, is also kinda special for me.  I’m turning 35.  And as much as I can’t believe that I’ll actually be 35, I’m looking forward to it.  I’m the first of most of my friends to reach the milestone and I think it’ll be fun to be the first one through the gate.  I mean, I have no control over it, so why not embrace it.

And now to try to come up with something fun to ring it in.  When I turned 30, Dan et al planned a Dress-up Magnum party for me (and Gary who was turning 29 the next day – sorry, Gary, am I giving away your secrets?)  It was awesome.  Most of the bravest boys grew moustaches for the event, Michelle made a giant ‘pin the moustache on Magnum game board and we got to wear Hawaiian shirts in January.  I had a ball.  And I have pictures to prove it.

Now, I don’t want to compete with Magnum, but I’m hoping to do something fun, unique and surrounded by my favourite people this year.  Not only will it be fun to make fun of me – age jokes never go out of style – we need something to look forward to after the holidays pass and sadly,  to make us feel better about being smack dab in the dead of winter.   Don’t we? 

OK.  Time to brainstorm.   I’m open to suggestions…Anyone?

December 23, 2009 - 11:32 pm

Auntie Jenny - maybe auntie jenny should extend her stay 🙂

December 24, 2009 - 12:03 am

shannen - Now that would be the best gift a girl could ask for… 🙂

January 2, 2010 - 11:54 am

Garold - I think based on my ever-retreating hairline, you’ve given away no secrets that anyone with eyeballs can figure out.

I was going to start an email chain on figuring out ideas for a birthday celebration. Personally, I have no ideas other than to break in the new Fullerton kitchen. Do you have countertops yet?

January 7, 2010 - 11:34 am

Dan - No countertops yet 🙁 Hopefully next week.

There is a birthday plan that is secret from Shannen. There will be prizes.

That is all.

Secrets and an almost 3 year old

Yesterday:

Jaia and I were mopping the floor after having cleaned up the last of the rubble that found it’s way into our living room over the past few weeks while renovating the kitchen.  While she dunked the mop in the water, I grabbed my favourite (favourite, favourite, favourite) vase to move it from the table and it shattered in my hands.  And all over the floor.  And on the couch.

It scared the heck out of both of us.  She cried.  I wanted to.  I loved it.  But I soldiered on, comforted Jaia who was sad that something actually broke – whether or not she had anything to do with it – and then swept up the glass before any of us got hurt.

Today (in the car on the way home):

About halfway Jaia changed the subject from which Christmas carol is her current favourite to last night’s broken vase incident.  She asked about a zillion questions about why it broke, whether or not I was sad, what I did with the broken glass, etc.

The conversation continued for a few minutes and then the questions began to change…”Will you get a new vase?” “Do you want a new vase?” And then she said what what I thought was “Daddy and I will buy you a new vase”, which turned out to be Daddy and I buyed you a new vase”.

Yup, she and Dan went shopping before picking me up to buy me a new vase as a last minute Christmas gift and Jaia spilled the beans.  I imagine Dan told her it was a secret, but a secret to a 3 year old means that you can say it, just at a whisper.  And whisper she did.

When I looked at Dan and saw the hilarious look on his face confirming that they did buy me a new vase for Christmas I couldn’t help but laugh.  I laughed all the way home, a little through dinner and even now when I think about how adorable that kid is and how proud she was for helping pick out a replacement vase for me.

Sweetest. Kid. Ever.  But don’t trust her with a secret.  You’ve been warned.

Laughing again….

December 22, 2009 - 10:17 am

Auntie Jenny - LOL! Cutest story ever.

A rare sight…

All three of us, together, in a picture.  Even more rare is when Snow White joins us.  She’s a shy one, that Snow White.

We need to do this more often.  I think we look pretty cute together.  😉

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December 21, 2009 - 11:15 am

Dan - Did you photoshop my hair? I thought it was worse than that. After seeing these photos I got a haircut within 24 hrs.

Bravery…

Year one:

Jaia was 11 months old and sat pleasantly on Santa’s knee for one great shot before she realized she’d been handed over to  scary stranger with a long shaggy beard, who was dressed in pajamas.  She was quickly in tears until she was safely back in Mama’s arms.

Year two:

Jaia wanted no part of a visit with Santa.  Dan and I sprung it on her and she was terrified and super apprehensive, despite all the other well-behaved girls and boys who sat on Santa’s lap and survived unscathed.  Even the promises on a candy and a scraggly Elmo doll being waved widly to distract her did nothing to calm her fears.  There was no way this was going to happen.

As a final attempt, the camera guy suggested I sit next to Sant but slightly out of the shot so Jaia would feel more comfortable. It worked, but only to a point.  She leaned so far away from Santa and so much towards me that they are barely together in the shot at all.  And her face is hilarious.  Not a fan of Ol’ St. Nick at all.  Just doing ot for the candy at that point.

Year three:

After a bit of preparation of what she was going to ask Santa for, Jaia was a total pro.  She sat pleasantly on his lap.  Smiled for the camera and then proceeded to give Santa her looooong list, promising that she’d been a good girl all year long.  I stood there, proud as can be, and felt a little like a pageant mom as I smiled from the background like I was coaching her.  All that was missing was the tiara and the spray tan. (On her, not me).  It was awesome.

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To add to the excitement, Jaia met Santa AGAIN with Daddy when they went out a few days later.  And this time Mrs. Claus was there too.  She apparently sat right back down with him and gave him her list again, just to make sure he didn’t forget anything.

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I wonder if she noticed that he looked nothing like the Santa from the mall.  Or that Mrs. Claus looked a little like a man…

December 18, 2009 - 10:12 am

Auntie Kris - Awesome! A new photo for my cubicle at work. No one can understand how Kurt and I have such a gorgeous blonde daughter, but I let them wonder anyways. LOL.

Cold hands, warm heart.

I don’t like winter.  And I complain about it a lot. The cold air is too cold and the snow, for mid-December, is already too deep.  Perhaps I wasn’t built for this climate.  I don’t ski or snowboard, nor do I play hockey or go skating, sledding, or snowshoeing.  I don’t see much point to winter other than for hiding inside.  And that’s how it’s always been.

It doesn’t help that as I wait for my new ‘roomier’ coat to arrive, I must zip myself up into my regular one and walk around looking like a sausage.

But…just as I turn on the computer to start scouting locations to live where there is no snow (got room for me, Kris?), I see the excitement in Jaia’s eyes as the snow starts to fall.  She, at 2, has already gone skiing and is crazy excited to learn to skate.  She was showing me her proposed technique last night dressed in pjs and bare feet.

And then she heads outside to play and is in heaven.  She loves winter and I find her sneaking peeks out the window to make sure the snow hasn’t melted yet – which melts my cold heart – just a little.  I guess we’ll stay and stick it out.  For now.  😉

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December 17, 2009 - 10:30 pm

Kris - Well, if the novelty wears off, I’m sure I could convince her that swimming with sea turtles is a great time too. WAY better than skiing, or anything to do with ice/snow, really. Like you, I was SO not built for that climate.