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Ok, I admit it.

Over the last few years, and specifically the last two, I haven’t been much of a reader.  And I want to be.  And I’m embarrassed to admit that I’m not.  There just always seems to be too many other things to do.  It’s a terrible excuse, I admit it.  But time spent reading could otherwise be spent playing with Jaia, taking pictures, cleaning, exercising, relaxing, hanging out with Dan, blogging, SLEEPING…So reading rarely wins out.

Part of the problem is the books I *try* to read.  Because I consider my free-time limited, I want to spend it reading FABULOUS books not ones that make me yawn or ones I have to struggle through.  And the last few I’ve picked up have bored me to tears.  I need something gripping.

I blame a book I read a few months ago.  I’m not sure if it was me or the time or the season, but I loved The Other Boleyn Girl by Philippa Gregory.  From page one of the 700 and some, I was completely hooked.  I powered through it in record time and actually mourned it’s end.  And I think I’m still in mourning.  No other book since has had me the same way.  And I want that again. 

So I’m putting this out there to my friends and family who are avid readers…Help me choose my next book.  I’m open to any and all suggestions – as long as they don’t begin with something like ‘…it starts off slowly’ because those, though probably amazing later on, are the worst offenders for yours truly. 

So there.  Suggest away.  I’m getting desperate.

November 17, 2008 - 1:44 pm

KAtie - I know exactly where you are coming from!
Did you try the other books in the tudor series by Philippa Gregory? I haven’t read them all yet, but read the one that takes place right after, and it was really good! I have them if you want any!

November 17, 2008 - 2:00 pm

Kris - The Other Boelyn Girl was a fantastic read…it sucked me right in too. Her other books are pretty good, but the only won that struck me as a close second was A Constant Princess, about the life of Catherine (Henry’s first wife, the one who he tried to divorce and sent to live in a shit hole while he had fun with Anne and the rest of the wives).

I read a book recently that I don’t think is very well known but which grabbed me because it was kind of like a fairy tale for adults. It’s called The Thirteenth Tale and I don’t remember the author, but it’s in the sidebar on my blog. Really good book.

I’ll put my thinking cap on…I’m sure there are others on my 2008 list that I really enjoyed…

November 17, 2008 - 2:06 pm

Kris - How could I forget? Best book I’ve read all year: Love in the Time of Cholera. A bit long-winded at times but a beautiful story and extra amazing because Marquez wrote it in English, his second language, instead of in Portugese and then translating it. He does great things with words.

November 17, 2008 - 4:55 pm

claudia - I just finished the Other Boleyn Girl last week too! It was awesome, sped right through it even after watching the movie (the book is so much more scandalous!). I’ve heard that the Twilight books are completely addictive too, which I’ll probably start on next.

November 17, 2008 - 5:41 pm

Auntie Jen - My Sister’s Keeper by Jodi Picoult. I couldn’t put it down.

November 17, 2008 - 5:58 pm

Heather - Historical Fiction:
Definately read the other Philipa Gregory books…they’re all awesome if you like historical fiction. Margaret George does an awesome “Cleopatra” and “Henry VIII”, both of which are large and in charge and easy (though long) reads.
For the Ladies:
I like Jodi Picoult – 19 Minutes, Keeping Faith, Plain Truth, My Sisters Keeper.
Marian Keyes – great british chick lit – Sushi for Beginners, Rachel’s Holiday, Lucy Sullivan is Getting Married, etc. All fun, witty, easy reads.
What about the new Twilight Series that all the teenage girls are reading (and the rest of us are secretly reading and LOVING)?
Just AWESOME: (some of my favorite books)
The Alchemist – Paolo Cohini
World Without End and Pillars of The Earth – Ken Follet
A Thousand Splendid Suns – Khalhed Hosseini
Thirteenth Tale – Diane Setterfield
The Linnet Bird – Linda Holeman
A Moonlit Cage – Linda Holeman (I seriously reccomend her two books here)
My favorite book of all time – The Frog King, by Adam Davies. Definately pick this up – everyone I have shared this with has absolutely LOVED this book. Boys and Girls alike.

November 17, 2008 - 11:12 pm

Kristin - YES…another vote for the Thirteenth Tale. And ditto on Pillars of the Earth (but be prepared to read it only at home…it’s printed on ridiculously heavy paper and it’s like…1100 pages long).

Frog King was awesome. I’m one of those girls she’s referring to. And I know others.

November 18, 2008 - 10:15 am

shannen - WOW. So many suggestions. I bought Twilight on the weekend but have yet to crack it open.

Any of you have some extra time you can spare and donate to me? Now that I’ve added the gym back into the routine, I’m going to be useless. And in bed by 9pm.

November 18, 2008 - 10:18 am

EAP - “The Forger’s Spell “- Edward Dolnick

Non-fiction, but it reads like fiction. It’s about one of the greatest art forgery scams of all time. Couldn’t put it down, AND I learned a lot.

EAP

December 4, 2008 - 8:53 pm

linds - shan,
‘Pillars of the Earth’ and ‘World without End’ are awesome. but yes, huge in wieght alone.
‘The Host” by Stephanie Meyers (the author of Twilight) is better than the twilight series in my opinion.
‘Outlander’ by Diana Gabaldon is the series I’m reading now and it’s amazing.
and I think the 2 best books I’ve read in awhile have been “The Gargoyle” by Andrew Davidson and ‘The Historian’ by Elizabeth Kostova (which Jen and I now have auntie kerry reading!!)

Inspiration

I haven’t been feeling inspired lately.  In fact, it’s been quite the opposite, really.  I’ve been exhausted and too busy and with the weather turning colder, the thought of getting outside to take pictures has been close to the furthest thing from my mind.

But I can’t deny missing having camera in hand.  And so, as a way to force my inspiration, my good friend Kontributor Kris and I have started a photo-a-day blog.  We registered for it last night and we’ve already each posted once.  Hopefully that is not explained only by the new-ness of it all but by the sheer excitement of a photo-dedicated forum for two gals who really love taking pictures.

Swing by for a visit now and then:  www.photopography.wordpress.com.

November 14, 2008 - 5:57 pm

Auntie Jen - cool idea girls! I will be checking it out for sure

my latest obsession

After missing an episode or two of a new show, I tend to avoid it because i feel like I’ve already missed too much to be able to get into it properly.   I never watched an episode of Sex in the City until after the season finale aired (and still have only seen a handful), nor did I watch the Soprano’s, Six Feet Under or the like.  I wanted to, I just never got around to it.

But then, against my better judgement and after the 100th time that Dan suggested I check out this new show on HBO, I finally caved, even though the first season is almost over.  He had seen a few episodes of True Blood and knew it was right up my alley.  The premise surrounds vampires finally being able to ‘come out of the coffin’ and  live amongst the rest of us (only at night, of course) thanks to the creation of a synthetic blood-drink (Tru Blood) – meaning humans are far more tolerant of the vampires when they aren’t trying to eat us.

And just to make it that much more fun, the folks at HBO came up with a hilarious ad campaign:

From 10 minutes into the first episode that I watched on Friday night, I was hooked.  Three days later and 10 episodes watched – thanks to the magic of On Demand – I am completely addicted.  Definitely worth checking out.  Unless vampires aren’t your cup of tea, that is.

A word of warning though – DO NOT watch this show with your parents. Or your kids.  Just saying.

November 14, 2008 - 12:01 pm

EAP - I watched the first episode but haven’t watched since. It ‘s not the vampires that I find creepy, it’s Anna Paquin. How she ever got an acting job, I will never understand.

EAP

November 14, 2008 - 12:12 pm

shannen - Ok, I’ll give you that. My sister said the same thing. And I guess she annoyed me a little too – but the show gets good enough that Paquin seems…a little less pathetic. Try it again.

November 14, 2008 - 1:25 pm

Sonja - I know how she gets acting jobs – she won an oscar at the age of 12 for playing a mute in In the Piano. I also just learned that she is from Winnipeg.

November 14, 2008 - 5:05 pm

EAP - Okay, that tears it for me. If she’s from Winnipeg, then she REALLY must be a loser.

😉

EAP

November 14, 2008 - 5:19 pm

shannen - Ummmmm…EAP…Aren’t you from Winnipeg?

November 17, 2008 - 11:15 am

EAP - Yes, but I left it behind 21 years ago.

Last Friday I got an email from Manny, who was attending the Conservative Party policy convention there. It was his first time in The Peg. His email simply said:

“Now I know why you left.”

Nuff said.

EAP

The great snooze debate

Do you abuse the snooze?  I think there are two kinds of people in the world, snoozers and non-snoozers.  I’ve never understood the latter.

stll_alarm_clock_snooze.gifDan and I have very different ideas about waking up in the morning.  I want to make myself believe that I’ve slept longer, so I set my clock a 20 minutes fast and set the alarm to go off at least a half hour before I need to get up.  That way I can hit the snooze button a few times before starting the day.  Dan thinks this is ridiculous strategy.  He feels that if you want more sleep, then just sleep longer, rather than wake yourself up every 9 minutes or so.

I see his logic, but snoozing works best for me.  If I sleep until the minute I need to get out of bed, I feel robbed.  I feel like I have to spring out of bed and go! Go! Go! – rather  than take it easy and make my way into the world at my own pace.

But i have to admit…I have tried to change.  For the benefit of my husband who probably wouldn’t even use an alrm clock if it wasn’t for me.  I figured I owed him as much.  I tried moving the alarm clock across the room so I’d have to physically get out of bed to hit the snooze button, but that didn’t work.  I’d crawl right back into bed, close my eyes and wait for the next alarm.  No go.  I eventually just moved it closer, figuring it was just easier on both of us.

Then, the other day, my friend Andre alerted me to a brilliant idea.  His name is Clocky and he is an alarm clock that hides on you when you hit the snooze button.

Get this: When the alarm clock goes off and the snooze button is pressed, Clocky will roll off the bedside table and wheel away, bumping mindlessly into objects on the floor until it eventually finds a spot to rest. Minutes later, when the alarm sounds again, the sleeper must get up out of bed and search for Clocky. This ensures that the person is fully awake before turning it off. Small wheels that are concealed by Clocky’s shag enable it to move and reposition itself, and an internal processor helps it find a new hiding spot every day.

I might stomp the crap out of Clocky by day 3, but I’m willing to give him a try.

November 8, 2008 - 3:29 am

Kris - Why does Clocky look like a piece of banana bread?

November 10, 2008 - 9:00 am

Shannen - It’s actually supposed to be fur. Why fur? No idea. Perhaps so you think Clocky is cute and so you may be less inclined to flush him down the toilet.

Diaper-free Sunday

We started ‘potty training’ Jaia a looooooong time ago.  I highlight the words potty training here because that isn’t exactly what it was.  Well, there was potty, but no training.  At all.  We never wanted to pressure her and we figured that when she was ready, she’d let us know.  But to help the situation a long just a little bit we got the idea to buy a potty and just leave it in the bathroom for her to get used to.  But there she was, at 16 months old (or maybe even earlier), checking it out, wanting to sit on it and the odd time even using it the way a potty should be used.

But then came the revolt – which happened to fall exactly around the time that we moved to a new house.  ANY interest she had been showing over the weeks previous was *POOF* gone.  She wouldn’t even look at the potty.  It was like it was an old friend that had done her wrong.  She wanted nothing to do with it. 

So we waited.  And every once in awhile she’d ask, sit, but she clearly wasn’t interested yet.  And we didn’t want to push.  And then, as soon as she’d start to show signs…..we’d go away on vacation.  And after a few days of a messed up routine, the potty training fell off her radar again and we’d have to start fresh…again.

That is, until about a month ago.  The regular morning pee in the potty turned into using the potty at daycare and some potty time in the evening.  And over the past couple of weeks, she’s started to ask for it, even if it wasn’t directly in view. 

And yesterday, we threw caution to the wind and went all out for a diaper-free day.  No diaper at nap time, none when we took Humph on a long walk and none when we went grocery shopping.  No accidents.  And you should have seen her go.  It was like she suddenly tasted freedom for the first time because she did nothing but run – almost all day long, reflected in her sleeping straight through from 7:30 pm to 8:30 am this morning.

I can’t claim that she’s officially potty trained.  She could probably last most nights without a diaper, but I’m not ready to take that chance just yet.  One small goal at a time.  And for right now I’m just pleased as punch that our day and evenings together will soon no longer be spent changing dirty diapers but rather running around enjoying life without having to deal with them at all.