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Resolutions

It’s almost February and I’m finally taking the time to write down my resolutions.  After a quick glance through the forgetful.ca archives, it seems that it’s not something I’ve been very good at over the years, or at least the years we’ve been blogging.  I always try to make them as there are always things I think I can improve on, and sharing them here forces me to own up a little bit.

The usual suspects:

1.  Make better use of my time.  I waste a lot of my very limited free time on surfing.  I don’t want to give it up completely as there are a number of blogs that I read religiously that I would miss dearly, but most of it has got to go.  And that includes Facebook.  I find myself on there too often checking in on the ‘friend’ I haven’t seen in 20 years.  Waste. Of. Time.  I’d much rather be…

2. Taking More Pictures.  This goes completely against what I wrote in #1, but I recently stumbled on and have been obsessed with some AMAZING photographer’s blogs (like this one and this one and this one ) and I am completely and totally inspired.  Beyond inspired.  I so want to pull my camera out, dust it off and try to work my own magic.  Perhaps Kris will get inspired with me and we can pick up www.photopography.wordpress.com where we left off…

3.  Eat healthier.  I’m a healthy eater.  Sickningly so to some of my co-workers BUT since the fall I’ve fallen off the wagon a little.  Or a lot.  Health was not the motivator, chocolate was.  And I feel it now.  Just blech.  Eating healthier will help.  A lot.

4.  Write more.  And not just on the blog but especially on the blog.  Why have it if it is going to sit there untouched?  I can’t promise a post a day, but I can try.  And taking more pictures will help.

5.  Read more.  This horrendous bus strike has singlehandedly stolen my book mojo.  I’m not really one to read before bed and so reading during my long and boring commute was all I was doing, but it was enough.  I was satisfied.  I was happy.  Now I’m barely reading at all since I’m carpooling with 5 other friends/co-workers.  I’m loving not standing at the bus stop in the -30 temperatures we’ve been having, but I have to admit that I’m missing the bus.  I’ve been neglecting Edward and Bella since before Christmas.  it’s high time for a reunion.

And last but not least:

I want to do everything with intent and purpose.  I want to forgive and forget.  I want to laugh hard and smile often.  I want to appreciate the quiet moments and cherish the LOUD, wonderful, fleeting toddler moments.  I want to love with my whole heart.  I want to stop and take it all in.  I want to hug the important people in my life with meaning.  I want to live simply and enjoy the little things more.  I want to be proud of all I’ve accomplished.  I want to constantly remind myself of exactly how lucky I am.

2009 is going to be a good year…I’m already sure of it.

January 26, 2009 - 11:29 pm

Auntee Jennee - I feel a tear coming on.. that was a very nice ending.

January 27, 2009 - 12:04 am

Gen - I like your last but not least resolution the most…

So much so that I might even copy and paste that for my own 2009 resolution!!!
{you would, of course, get full credit for the inspiration though!}

Four Christmases (and two birthdays) – Part One

Our holidays were chock full this year.  Chock full of family, chock full of FOOD and chock full of presents.  We were spoiled, as per usual.  In order to do a wrap up without A) forgetting anything and B) boring the crap out of you, I have to break it down into chunks.  And a lot of it will be in point form because I am so behind it would take 8 Christmases just to catch up.

Christmas Eve – Spent at my dad and Di’s with my brothers, their girlfriends, my neice and, of course, Jaia and Dan.  The evening ended next door at my aunt’s where I had a very long overdue visit with my cousins who I had not seen in a short millenia.  The gift opening was eventful and Jaia was immediately spoiled.  She came home with enough Dora and Yo Gabba Gabba stuff to fill one full floor of our house and we were just beginning.  Little did she know what the days to follow would bring.

Christmas morning –  For us this was the December 26th.  We pushed the date forward one day to make sure Auntie Lizzie and Uncle Mort could be there with us.  Jaia slept in a little, probably for the last Christmas morning ever.  She was just starting to ‘get’ Santa and had no idea he actually comes to the house and brings toys but had no idea he’d bring TOYS!

This year, Santa’s big gift to Jaia was a play kitchen.  It is the cutest one I’ve ever seen (Shan-ta has amazing taste) and she lit up when she came down to the bottom of the stairs and saw it set up, waiting for her.  My mom predicted that it would be her favourite gift, but that she might not get it right away or she may be so overwhelmed by all the Christmas chaos that she wouldn’t play with it until later.  Mom was wrong.  Jaia ignored all other gifts while she busied herself in her new kitchen for the ENTIRE day…and every day since then.  She is contantly asking us to come to her sink, wash our hands and then to sit while she talks on the play phone and whips us up dinner.  Last night it was eggplant chicken.

Lisa and Willie’s Reception – Two of my favourite people snuck away and got married one day last year.  We never got the chance to celebrate them or their awesome marriage and precious (not so) new babe, Pearl.  So on December 27th, we took care of that. All of us.  Friends we see all the time and friends that I haven’t seen since high school.  And, as per Lisa’s request, we did it up in style.  Everyone wore their finest black and white.  Everyone looked gorgeous, especially my husband – lucky me!

What a night!  It was amazing and it passed far too quickly.  After far too many martinis, champagne and other frosty beverages, we were piling back into the bus that took us to the Empire Grill.  Suddenly the after effects of the open bar took over.  Some passengers were louder than usual, some feel asleep (me), some….barfed.  Hanging out with the people I’ve known the longest in my life and having the kind of night we’ve had together 1000 times before (but 1000 years ago) was the best gift I got all year. 

I’m still trying to convince L&W to do it up every time they are in town…and they seem to be warming to the idea.  Fingers crossed.

December 30 – We woke Jaia up at 4:00 am to drive the airport and hop on a plane heading to province #2 (and Christmas #3) of the four provinces we would spend time in over the holidays.  We landed in Saskatoon to find it FREEZING cold.  Beyond freezing cold.  We were not prepared for the change in temperature from what we had been experiencing back home. 

In an attempt to gather as much family as possible, we all stayed in a hotel in Saskatoon.  5 rooms worth.  Dan’s mom and Brett and Annissa (and Dave), his aunt Sue and (soon to be uncle) Mohsen came all the way from Kipling, SK.  Aunt Shirley, uncle Kent, Gabe, Karlee and Matt, and Grandma and Grandpa came from Elrose, SK.  And last but not least, auntie Jenny and Benny the wonderdog came from Calgary.  It was amazing to get the chance to spend to much time with them and considering the temperature outside we spent most of our time indoors catching up. 

December 31 – The big day.  More fun than Christmas.  I can’t believe she’s 2!  But it’s more amazing to me that we have a 2-year old.  Or have far she’s come in just 2 years.  We can have full conversations with her now, play games, she has a hilairous sense of humour, she can count to ten and do somersaults –  and just a year ago she was only just learning to take her first steps.  I really am the luckiest mama.  She’s my sun and moon and stars.  

(Birthday #1) We started the day by giving jaia her birthday cupcake and got her ready for a full day.  We were actually checking out of the Sheraton and into the Delta Bessborough across the street to have her party in a suite rather than a small room.  It was a small pain in the butt to re-pack everything and move it for one night, but the rewards were worth it.  ‘The Bess’ as it’s affectionately called by everyone but me, the only Ontarian, was absolutely amazing.  It is very old but very well maintained and STUNNING!  I was thrilled with the service, our room and the amount of space we had to work with.  The 550 sq. ft was huge – bigger than Dan’s first apartment.

In the afternoon we moved all of our stuff over to the room and began decorating.  Pink polka dots and balloons were everywhere.  And then the cake of cakes arrived.  Dan’s awesome aunt Sue spoiled the birthday girl rotten with the most beautiful, pinkest cake I’ve ever seen.  After eating some pink cake (and having her photo snapped while doing so ) at Dan’s cousin Melanie’s wedding last summer, Jaia talked non-stop about having pink cake.  And pink cake she got.   This one truped some people’s wedding cakes (or wedding pies)!

We ate, drank, played, opened gifts and by 8 pm or so, the bulk of the crowd left.  And after jaia passed out from gleeful fatigue, Dan, auntie Jenny and I stayed up chatting and catching up after too much time apart.  It was just like the good ol’ days (that I miss dearly) when the three of us were inseperable.  Many a New Year’s has passed with just the three of us hanging out and talking.  Or drinking too much and suffering for it on too many a January 1st’s.  But this year, after a looong day we all hit the hay before the ball was even set to drop.  It seems New Year’s Eve has changed drastically for Fullertons other than just Dan and I.

Rather than bore you to death (if you’ve actually made it this far), I’ll sum up the last half of our trip in a second post.  And I’ll add pictures (it’s being a bit finicky at the moment).  But for now they are all available at flickr (which can always be reached by clicking on the photos along the top of this page).

…to be continued.

January 22, 2009 - 1:12 pm

Sonja - What a cake! It’s absolutely stunning. Aunt Sue must be a pro baker and if not, she should be. Very impressive.

Oh the posts I will post!

Our holidays were insanely busy.  Make that, we were insanely busy relaxing.  We weren’t checking email.  We weren’t online banking.  We weren’t checking voicemails.  We had a wonderful, beautiful holiday in Ontario, Saskatchewan, Alberta and British Columbia doing nothing but visiting, catching up, and, obviously, driving.

Yup, that’s right.  Every 3 years we have what we call our ‘4 Province Christmas’.  I have to admit, it’s my fave.  We get to spend time with my side of the family before we leave, but then we end up seeing most, if not all, of Dan’s side when we fly out west.  Dan is trying to convince me that we should call this one a 5 Province Christmas because we had a stop-over in Winnipeg, but I don’t think 2 hours in Manitoba counts…Or maybe it does…

I plan to post about some of our favourite holiday moments, but couldn’t resist posting one of my new most favourite pictures of the bean while I gather thoughts and pictures to try to do this special trip justice.

This was taken at about 7:00 am on December 31 – New Year’s Eve and Jaia’s birthday.  Our family tradition (now that she’s old enough to be able to enjoy it) is to wake up the birthday girl (or boy) with a piece of cake with a lit candle in it.   This year we spent Jaia’s birthday in a variety of hotels, so trying to track down cake and a candle at the last minute was tricky.  We settled on a birthday brownie from Grandma.

I love the messy hair and the expression.  I think chocolate cake (or brownies) first thing in the morning is the best way to start any day.  I’d say Jaia agrees.

January 13, 2009 - 11:07 pm

Danielle - Oh Shan… this is definitely one of the best photos of all time. I haven’t kept up with the blogs I love as of late and seeing this today just made my night. Love it!

January 14, 2009 - 12:44 pm

Heather - Too cute!

Old and new

As much as each Christmas holiday brings it’s own memories – though I’m still trying forget about those from last year – the best part for me is looking back on seasons past. 

 

Old:

  • Decorating the tree.  This one is obvious, but one of my favourite things to do at Christmastime.  Especially at my mom’s.  We spend half the time unwrapping the ornaments and remembering when we got them, who gave them to us and why we love them.  Especially the scary Santa one.  I’d post a pic but I’m too frightened of him.
  • The food.  Oh my, the food.  I eat for days and days and days and don’t regret it for one second.  That’s what the New Year is for.
  • Eggnog.  You either love it or hate it.  I’m in the ‘love it’ group.  Especially with rum.  Lots of rum.
  • Speaking of alcohol…A few years back my sister and I accidentally got wasted on Christmas Eve.  I think it was slightly embarrassing for my parents who had all their friends over, but it was a helluva lot of fun. We haven’t been able to do it every year since because we aren’t always together, but we try.  Perhaps we’ll pick this one up again this year…Liz?
  • Cruises down Taffy Lane.
  • My beloved angel that sits atop our beautifully green, though fake, Christmas tree.  This angel is the very one that was once the angel that sat on my Nanny and Pappy’s tree.  Every year my grandfather would tell me and all my cousins about how, on Christmas Eve, once all the kids were asleep, the angel would hop down onto the white dove (an ornament which I have also acquired) and the fly down to to the coffee table where she would tap dance. I guess he assumed that stories of Santa waiting until the kids were asleep would not be enough to convince them that they should hit the hay early… it sounds silly now, but to a kid, the angel was real magic.  My grandfather was the best storyteller I’ve ever known, and many of my favourite childhood Christmas memories include him in some way.

New:

  • Making gingerbread houses.  Jaia loved every second.  So did Humphrey.  Will post pictures this weekend. 
  • This I’ve been coveting this for a couple of years and I finally made the purchase.  It won’t come in handy this year, but I’m excited for it’s debut next December 1.

I hope to keep adding to this list as we spend more and more Christmases together and as parents.  I’ve heard it said that you experience the holidays in a whole different way once you are a parent.  It couldn’t be more true…

I can’t believe Christmas is already here.  In just a few days my mom and dave will arrive and a few after that Santa makes his appearance.  I feel like yesterday was December 1st.  Where did all the time go and can I seriously have more shopping to do?  See you at the mall!

 

December 19, 2008 - 7:45 pm

Jen - Shan, what was the last link you put up? I couldn’t open it 😐 (the thing that will come in handy next Dec. 1)

December 21, 2008 - 1:09 am

Krista - LOVE this entry, your story of the tap dancing angel was great – reminded me of my own Grandpa’s stories…thanks Shan.

December 22, 2008 - 9:51 am

Katie - Yippie! You got it!!!! I looove it!