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To the left…

Barack Obama is left-handed.   Leonardo da Vinci was left-handed.  M.C. Escher was left-handed.  Matt Groening is left-handed.  Queen Victoria was left-handed.  Jimi Hendrix was left-handed.

And so is Jaia.  Not a bad crew to be hanging with though.  What’s more, a large percentage of history’s creative geniuses were/are left-handed.  Go Jaia!

It’s not something I paid much attention to until others started to point it out to me ALL. THE. TIME.  I still don’t see much of an issue with it, but I guess it does complicate her life just a touch more than a right-handed person.  A touch.

The really cool thing about being left-handed is that, according to an article I read, “the right hemisphere of the brain controls left-handedness, and therefore, lefties do seem to have an advantage in right hemisphere functions such as visual concepts, creativity, art, music, and sports requiring good spatial judgment and rapid reactions”.

Apparently, only 13 percent of people are left handed, so lefties just have to learn to function in a right-handed world. They need to do most tasks back-to-front, with equipment that wasn’t designed for them.  The result: they learn to adapt ,which can pay off in spades later in life when it comes to problem solving.

My brother is left-handed and I watched him struggle to use ‘normal’ scissors or to not smudge his writing when using pencil (or certain wet ink pens) or to have to make sure he had his own hockey stick when we played in the streets…but really, it didn’t seem all that bad. He just adapted.  And Jaia will too.

Some facts:

  • 75 percent of left-handers have two right-handed parents
  • Four of the last five US presidents are left-handed
  • Left-handers need to do most tasks back-to-front, with equipment that wasn’t made for them.
  • Most children show a preference for their right or left hand by age three.
  • Teaching proper left-handed writing technique from an early age is essential.

So there we go.  A wee challenge as Jaia begins to write and use scissors.  But also a cool advantage in the creativity department.  The next guitar great or world famous artist?  You just never know.

February 10, 2010 - 4:48 pm

Auntie Kris - Uncle Kurt is a lucky lefty as well and is not only brilliantly creative, but excellent with scissors. 😉

February 10, 2010 - 5:52 pm

aunt michelle - Hi, just thought I’d let you know cousin Meahgan is a lefty and so is Aunty Ellen, and they manage splendidly.

February 11, 2010 - 10:49 am

contributor mark - I’m a lefty. So is Ned Flanders.

February 11, 2010 - 12:42 pm

Sarah - Both my kiddos are left-handed. Gives Kayleigh an advantage in hockey too!

Valentine's Week

This morning Jaia and I got up early and prepared to go to a daytime Valentine’s Party with a bunch of her friends, old and soon-to-be.  She chose her ‘heart dress’ –  perfect for the occasion – and off we went.

After crafting for the first half hour and showing off her skills at writing her name on her own, the other kids began to arrive.  Choosing to practice her big sister skills, Jaia avoided the basement where the kids her age were running wild, and opted to hang out with the babies and entertain them while their moms chatted nearby.

I encouraged her a few times to play with the bigger kids, but she didn’t seem to want to leave the little ones at all.  And she was loving it.  Getting them to smile was reward enough for her.

As we were walking to the car after the party, Jaia tugged on my hand and stopped me to say “I’m sorry, Mama, but I just didn’t feel like playing today”.  One the one hand I felt terrible that she thought she was letting me down by not playing with the big kids, and on the other I was amazed by how mature she can be sometimes.  Some days I don’t want to play, either.

Jaia really is going to be a super big sister.  I can already feel my heart melting as I watch her with the babies she’s spent time with lately.  She’s so sweet and sensitive and gentle with all of them.  Frank the Baby is lucky to have her.

Conversations with Jaia – February 8, 2010

While watching Charlotte’s Web:

“Mama, it’s not right to give the baby pig away.  It’s just not right.”

Man, she’s cute.

February 9, 2010 - 10:10 am

Dan - What does she think of the spider’s untimely demise?

Sorry for the spoiler for anyone who hasn’t read the book!

February 10, 2010 - 8:51 am

Auntie Kris - I’m not sure that any spider can have an untimely demise. Even Charlotte.

Glorious weekend!

While my parents were shoveling themselves out of 30 inches of snow this weekend, we were enjoying nothing but sunshine.  I’m not sure when or how it happened, but our weekend was jam-packed with goodness.  A long overdue birthday dinner for Jaia, Auntie Vinnie and I was held at my brother’s house on Friday night.  Indian food lovingly made by Vinnie’s mama filled all of our bellies.  Delish.  And well worth the wait.

Saturday was spent at the canal soaking up the sun.  We met up with some dear local and long distance friends for a skate/walk and, of course, a Beavertail.  It was beautiful and packed on the ice.  Jaia and her dad skated for awhile and then joined me for a stroll while the rest made it from one end to the other and back.  As the sun went down, so did the temperature.  To warm up we headed back to the Woodses for a warm meal and a ridiculously good time.  I have seriously not laughed that hard in a long time.  It was just what I needed.

Today was also beautiful.  Though far less action-packed, we were able to sneak in two walks in the sunshine.  I haven’t had this much vitamin D in months.  C’mon, spring!  We’re ready and eager for your return.

February 9, 2010 - 10:12 am

Dan - Good times indeed. After the skate, Jaia and I went into the ice-side chalet to warm up because she was freezing. Her priorities were clear though – she was in favor of bundling up and venturing back out into the cold to obtain The Beavertail.

February 9, 2010 - 10:48 am

contributor mark - On Sunday both the Woodses and Nicholses were commenting on how much fun Saturday was. *insert something heartfelt here about good times with good friends*

February 10, 2010 - 8:53 am

Auntie Kris - Some Ottawa-related things that I miss (in no particular order):

– BeaverTails
– Jaia (and associated parentals)
– “good times with good friends”

Great post!

Good Eats.

I don’t think I cook enough delectables to warrant a recipe blog.  Dan is the real chef.  He can whip up the most complicated meal and make it look simple.  Not me.  I can follow a recipe, but I’m fairly selective about what I’ll attempt.  I don’t take risks in the kitchen.

But I do love to cook, and every now and then I come across a recipe that I feel we should share.  I have a few criteria: easy, few ingredients (the more I’m likely to have in the pantry, the better), healthy and DELICIOUS.

Last week I came upon one that I’ve already re-made.  And I’m pretty sure it will become a weekly staple, well, at least in the wintertime.

The cool thing about this one is that it can be made vegetarian (if you substitute the chicken broth with vegetable broth) and gluten-free (if you choose a gluten-free broth) so almost everyone can eat it.

INGREDIENTS

  • 2  tablespoon(s) butter
  • 1   onion, chopped
  • 2   cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 3/4 pound(s) broccoli, thick stems peeled and diced (about 2 cups), tops cut into small florets (about 1 quart)
  • 1 1/2 pound(s) boiling potatoes (about 5), peeled and cut into 1/2-inch cubes
  • 5-6 celery stalks (cut in medium-sized chunks)
  • 3  cup(s) canned low-sodium chicken broth or homemade stock
  • 3  cup(s) water
  • 1 3/4 teaspoon(s) salt
  • 1/4 teaspoon(s) fresh-ground black pepper
  • 1/2 cup(s) grated Parmesan

DIRECTIONS

  1. In a large pot, melt the butter over moderately low heat. Add the onion; cook, stirring occasionally, until translucent, about 5 minutes.
  2. Add the garlic, broccoli stems, potatoes, broth, water, salt, and pepper. Bring to a boil. Reduce the heat and simmer until the vegetables are almost tender, about 10 minutes.
  3. In a food processor or blender, pulse the soup to a coarse puree. Return the soup to the pot and bring to a simmer. Add the broccoli florets and simmer until they are tender, about 5 minutes. Stir 1/4 cup of the grated Parmesan into the soup, and serve the soup topped with the remaining cheese.
  4. Variation : If you’d prefer a completely smooth soup, add the broccoli florets to the pot after the potatoes have cooked for five minutes, and continue simmering until all of the vegetables are tender, about five minutes more. Puree the soup until smooth. This would also make a great first course for six people.

Happy eating!  And let me know what you think…

February 3, 2010 - 10:51 am

Dan - It’s 9:54am and I’m already excited to have this soup for lunch. I give myself until 11am before I tear into it early.