{"id":7961,"date":"2015-03-02T21:45:41","date_gmt":"2015-03-03T02:45:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/?p=7961"},"modified":"2015-03-02T21:45:41","modified_gmt":"2015-03-03T02:45:41","slug":"epic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/?p=7961","title":{"rendered":"Epic."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last year, on the morning of January 1st, I called Lisa D. and asked\u00a0her if we could spend next New Year&#8217;s Eve with her and her family in BC. \u00a0The plans took 8-10 months to sort out while we waited to confirm details but I never backed down from the plan. \u00a0It was where I wanted to be. \u00a0Though, with us splitting the trip in two in two different parts of the province, it was logistically more complicated than I anticipated.<\/p>\n<p>But then, like magic, it all started coming together. \u00a0And it was perfect.<\/p>\n<p>Just being there, with Lis and her family was enough, but to have them celebrate my girl&#8217;s birthday was my favourite part. \u00a0As always, we started the day off with a cupcake. \u00a0Vanilla bean. \u00a0For my bean.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7962\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9025sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9025sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9025sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9025sm-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9025sm-200x133.jpg 200w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9025sm-290x193.jpg 290w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This tradition has become one of our favourites. \u00a0Especially for the kid not celebrating a birthday who loves that he\/she gets a sweet treat in the morning as well&#8230;and this year, the other three kids got to join in on the song and the treat.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7963\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9026sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9026sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9026sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9026sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7964\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9031sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9031sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9031sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9031sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7965\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9039sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9039sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9039sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9039sm-300x213.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7966\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9046sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9046sm\" width=\"531\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9046sm.jpg 531w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9046sm-199x300.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 531px) 100vw, 531px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Afterwards, it was time for a special scavenger hunt. \u00a0The grown ups, laaaaate the night before, did their best to find hiding spots for the clues that all rhymed (ok, that was Lisa and I. \u00a0The dads were shaking their heads and yawning by that point). We made it so Pearl and Leo could do most of the detective work and could show Jaia where to go next. \u00a0We had them running all over the house. \u00a0Tricky mamas&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7967\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9051sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9051sm\" width=\"531\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9051sm.jpg 531w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9051sm-199x300.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 531px) 100vw, 531px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7968\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9064sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9064sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9064sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9064sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Until the final clue that led her to her new snowboard. \u00a0Mind=blown. \u00a0She loved it.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7969\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9066sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9066sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9066sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9066sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7970\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9072sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9072sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9072sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9072sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/>The weather was phenomenal that day and so we took a two family hike up to the prettiest look out I may have ever seen.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7971\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9083sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9083sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9083sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9083sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7972\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9090sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9090sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9090sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9090sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7973\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9100sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9100sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9100sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9100sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And of course, stopped for pictures along the way&#8230;Sometimes, in odd places.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7974\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9106sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9106sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9106sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9106sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7975\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9117sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9117sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9117sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9117sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7976\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9125sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9125sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9125sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9125sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7977\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9140sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9140sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9140sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9140sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s something magical about seeing your littles get to play with the littles of the friends you once played with. \u00a0These two hit it off right away and were inseperable until we pulled out of the driveway to be on our way.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7978\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9145sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9145sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9145sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9145sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7979\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9148sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9148sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9148sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9148sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7980\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9153sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9153sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9153sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9153sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7981\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9158sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9158sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9158sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9158sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At the top, and after a well deserved snack, we stopped and breathed this view in for a few minutes. \u00a0This is literally in their backyard. \u00a0It was right then that I started working on my master plan to move out West\u00a0one day. \u00a0It&#8217;ll happen. You watch&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7982\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9166sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9166sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9166sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9166sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7983\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9168sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9168sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9168sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9168sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7985\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9182sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9182sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9182sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9182sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Jaia&#8217;s day ended up at the bowling alley up at the ski hill where I (yes, me) won the game (by a lot) before heading out tubing and then to watch a seriously impressive fireworks show. \u00a0The day, by all accounts, couldn&#8217;t have been better. \u00a04 children fell asleep for the night tucked in with smiles on their faces. \u00a0And just in time too for the grown ups to welcome new friends over for a rowdy game of Cards Against Humanity.<\/p>\n<p>The rest of our visit sped by. \u00a0Lisa and Willie showed us a grand time. \u00a0We soaked up our time together and talked very little about how soon we&#8217;d be leaving. \u00a0Focus on the good, right?<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7986\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9253sm-680x1024.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9253sm\" width=\"680\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9253sm-680x1024.jpg 680w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9253sm-199x300.jpg 199w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9253sm.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This girl has been a constant in my life since I met her almost 30 years ago. \u00a0She is one of the most genuine, honest and lovely people I have ever known and someone I am honoured\u00a0to call a best friend. \u00a0We have now lived apart longer now than we ever lived in the same city, but we&#8217;ve never ever let that stand\u00a0in the way.<\/p>\n<p>It took me far too long to make my way to her part of the world, but I&#8217;m so glad I finally did. \u00a0Seeing where she lives, where she has made a life for herself, where her kids go to school, and meeting the new best friends she&#8217;s made had me realize how we can live so very far from the people we love, but it only make us appreciate them more when we find ourselves close by.<\/p>\n<p>Lisa, we are sending a huge thank you to you and your family for welcoming us with open arms into your home for those few days. \u00a0Each one flew by way to quickly for my liking but the memories of our visit will last me a lifetime. \u00a0I still get misty-eyed thinking about having to say goodbye but I&#8217;m already looking forward to our next visit.<\/p>\n<p>Until we meet again, my friend. \u00a0Sending big love your way&#8230; \u00a0XOXO<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7987\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9272sm.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9272sm\" width=\"750\" height=\"498\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9272sm.jpg 750w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/DSC_9272sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last year, on the morning of January 1st, I called Lisa D. and asked\u00a0her if we could spend next New Year&#8217;s Eve with her and her family in BC. \u00a0The plans took 8-10 months to sort out while we waited to confirm details but I never backed down from the plan. \u00a0It was where I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[5,6,18,37,47],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7961"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7961"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7961\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7992,"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7961\/revisions\/7992"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}