{"id":5428,"date":"2012-01-16T20:51:21","date_gmt":"2012-01-17T01:51:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/?p=5428"},"modified":"2012-01-16T20:51:21","modified_gmt":"2012-01-17T01:51:21","slug":"on-the-ice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/?p=5428","title":{"rendered":"On the ice&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I did not skate as a child. \u00a0I tried, but to no avail. \u00a0I used figure skates, hockey skates, molded skates&#8230;but nothing ever helped. \u00a0My ankles just seemed to turn right in and I would spend the majority of the time on my butt, or on my face. \u00a0Neither was fun. \u00a0Especially when friends were learning and getting better while I was not. \u00a0In Grade 6 I hung up those ugly molded skates and never looked back.<\/p>\n<p>And then I met Dan. \u00a0And he was an avid skater who asked one too many times for me to join him on the canal and so I decided to try again. \u00a0And the most amazing thing happened. \u00a0I could skate. \u00a0It had been 100 years, but I was skating. \u00a0Without very many spills in between. \u00a0Turns out, like most things in life, the negative attitude I had as a kid was actually my biggest obstacle.I could skate all along, I just didn&#8217;t want to.<\/p>\n<p>So we decided that Jaia should be introduced to skating while she was young so that she wouldn&#8217;t have the same experience as I did. \u00a0The thing though, is that with her turning 2 in the winter, I thought she might be a little young. \u00a0So we waited until she was 3. \u00a0We took her out a few times on those adorable little double bladed skates and she loved it, but they fell off at every turn. \u00a0When she turned 4, &#8220;Santa&#8221; brought her some skates with pink laces and she was in love. \u00a0We again went a few times, but we had just moved. \u00a0And we spent much of the winter unpacking and taking care of an infant &#8211; neither opening up a ton of opportunities for a lot of ice time.<\/p>\n<p>So, with that long list of excuses, we find ourselves again in winter with a 5 year old who is eager to learn to skate and a mama full of regret for having waited so long. \u00a0This weekend though, we made the decision to get off our heinies and get out on the ice. \u00a0No more excuses.<\/p>\n<p>And when we do something, we do it big. \u00a0This weekend that meant heading out to the outdoor rink in -20 to have our first family skate of the year. \u00a0Wes included.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5429\" title=\"DSC_3277sm\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3277sm.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"465\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3277sm.jpg 700w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3277sm-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3277sm-290x193.jpg 290w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We bundled up, brewed up a pot of hot chocolate and headed out into the seriously bitter cold. \u00a0My temporarily bare hands froze in seconds. \u00a0But once all skin was covered, we were good.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3275sm.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5430\" title=\"DSC_3275sm\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3275sm.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"465\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3275sm.jpg 700w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3275sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>At first, Wes was loving his new skates. \u00a0But just like his sister before him, they fell off after 5 minutes. \u00a0So he walked. \u00a0And lasted about 20 minutes before he was too cold. \u00a0Dan and Jaia made it about 40 minutes with a hot chocolate break in the middle.<\/p>\n<p>Mmmmm&#8230;hot chocolate&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3312sm.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5432\" title=\"DSC_3312sm\" src=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3312sm.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"465\" srcset=\"http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3312sm.jpg 700w, http:\/\/forgetful.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/DSC_3312sm-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>For a beginner, the bean is doing fantastic. \u00a0She doesn&#8217;t understand that when they are learning (and beyond), everybody falls, \u00a0so when she does, she takes it as a failure to be able to skate. \u00a0I, on the other hand, see it as a rite of passage. \u00a0And if you are outside, on skates, you are SKATING. \u00a0It only gets better from 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